Only you can answer most of those questions for yourself. Any treatment or remedy will only work 100% if you're also committed to it and you believe in it to a certain extent. So, why am I writing about what can seems like a big hoax? For the simple reason that it works and it worked for me. I'm not trying to sell you a relaxation tape or tell you that you should buy a tape. I'm merely telling you that I've tried out these tapes and at first it really didn't work for me. I was skeptic and I knew that it wasn't going to work with me. Nothing else had that I had bought before had worked and all I was doing was spending money like water. I knew it had to stop but I succumbed anyway and bought a tape.
It transpired that the very next day these relaxation tapes were the very thing my therapist recommended to me! So deciding that there had to be something in it I tried it out. I was pleasantly surprised and found that if I listened closely enough this could become like a meditation aid for me. That's not what I wanted however, I didn't like meditation aids and I found myself fidgeting after a while despite the soothing overtones.
I talked it over with my therapist the next day and we both agreed to let the relaxation tapes go the way of the dinosaur, but I found myself drawn to it like a magnet as the day wore on and finally unable to help myself I tried it again. This time I decided to give it a fair shot and gamely laid myself out in my favorite easy chair after closing the window blinds to block out the intrusive daylight.
What happened next changed me into a fan of relaxation tapes. I found myself easing further back into my chair discarding all my worries and stresses and listening with intent to the soothing voice on the other side of the tape.
If you're interested in finding a relaxation tape to suit you - they come in CD's too - there are a few places you can try. The internet is one obvious option, along with your doctor or therapist who can recommend one to you. You can also try your local bookstore as they might keep some in stock or perhaps even a friend or family member who's going through the same things as you are, or who just uses the tape to relax. Try one, it doesn't hurt and they're not all that expensive.